What is happening? I have no clue what the heck am I doing. How am I supposed to build a life? I’m tired of doing everything on my own. I need support, I need somebody by my side. Series of struggles that would build up depression. The loneliness that has the power to paralyze you to stop appreciating the beauty of the world even the smallest things and reasons to still be grateful in life. Going low, isolating yourself from the world, finding it hard to wake up and inspire others.
Emotional Moderation! Don’t cause yourself more heartaches than what you’re actually already experiencing. Whoever hurt you, abused you, or whatever it is you’re going through, never magnify it. Life is too short. So just forgive and move on. Don’t cause unnecessary heartaches for other people. Life is hard enough as it is. We end up the ones hurting ourselves the most and you should love yourself just the kind of love you give to others and even more. Having gone through a lot of hardship gives you a lot more soul. So take advantage of that by speaking with passion. Whenever you give advice, cite your personal experiences. Cherish the life that you were given instead of wasting it. Feed yourself with positivity and yet, don’t be dependent on the things and people around you because they will all fade. They will fade, so even if they are all gone, you should still be there.
Hold on to your prayer and never let go. If you let go of your prayer then it’s so easy to lose everything else. Disappointments cause you pain. And it is a fact that pain makes people change and that is something that we must go through for personal growth. Even if you don’t understand right now, one day it is all going to make sense. People tend to be impatient and I guess that’s what the test is all about ..To grow our patience. Hence, you cannot question someone else’s pain, you cannot say “This is the right kind of pain.” or “This is the wrong kind of pain.” or being ungrateful. Never compare yourself to anyone else because whatever you’re going through, it’s meant for you and you meant to go through it. So, embrace the moment and don’t sulk in your sorrows. Others can aid but it’s only you who can help yourself. God puts people in your life to teach you, form you, shape you. Some of those people, it’s all they are sent for and they had to leave after they have taught you the lesson they were meant to teach you. Grasp the handhold that never breaks.
Life is ups and downs. We are constantly tested. So even if you cannot see the light from the farthest part of the tunnel, do not stop believing that it is there. That’s why they called it faith and trust. And you need to have these things if you want to be successful in life. Sometimes, it will also be hard to find words to express, but turn to God. You don’t have anyone else anyway, so what is there to lose? Never stop believing, never stop hoping. Life is beautiful so treat it as such. God will never test us with more than we can bear. You are going through what you’re going through because you can handle it. There are millions of things that we have to be thankful for today, think about it.
God is the master of the miracle; you can never give up because you can just always talk to him. We won’t definitely be the person we are today if we hadn’t gone through all the challenges. Everything has a purpose no matter how difficult or no matter how easy life is for you. Try to firmly hold on to your faith. Struggles are just tests. And if a test is distancing you from God then it’s a curse or punishment. But if they are making you closer to him then it means that you are passing the tests. Even when it feels like the sun is never going to rise again, you still need to turn to him. Because if you bear with it through all the difficulties, God will make easy times come again. He needs to test you to see if you are still a good person in times of hardship. Although, it wouldn’t be fair to judge a person based on how he behaves when life is easy because life is never meant to be easy. If it happens to be for you then it’s great! But sometimes, the easiest is your test, not your hardships. You just never know. The essence of this life isn’t simplified anyway. It supposed to be complicated and how you pass the inevitable tests. How you deal with the struggles make you who you are and define your ultimate destination.